(on men, women, attraction, and discovering that my heart speaks more than one language.)   “So… are you more attracted to men or women?” It’s a question I’ve been asked more times than I can count. Whether from friends, dates, or even strangers who are only just getting to know me…  And every single time, I disappoint them with exactly the same answer – “It’s not that simple.” Most people smile politely, convinced I’m dodging the question. Some want to insist I pick a side. But the truth is… I genuinely don’t know how to answer it. Not because I’m confused. But because I think the question itself is wrong. A few days ago, I found myself having yet another version of this conversation with someone who landed up on my Whatsapp chat window from a group for queer spiritual folks that I am a co-admin of.  He kept insisting – “But are you more attracted to men?” I replied – “It’s not that simple! My attraction towards men and women is different. It is a longer conversation and possibly a new blog😅” “It’s one answer… You need to pick one!” he continued. I kept saying the same thing – […]