“Log kya kahenge…”Ye sunte sunte — ab log kehne lage hain… Sawal ye nahi haike log keh kyun rahe hain…Ye to unki fitrat hai — wo kahenge! Sawal ye hai ke —kya tum sun loge? Poori zindagi…agar unke mutaabik zindagi na chuni to? Sawal ye nahi ke —log samajhte kyun nahi…Wo tumhe nahi samjhenge! Sawal ye hai ke —unke sawaal tumhe dadolate kyun hain? Sawal ye nahi ke —unki nasihatein tumhe jachti nahi!Shayad kabhi jachengi bhi nahi! Sawal ye hai ke —tum kabse “log kya kahenge”issey sharminda hone lage? 15th May 2026, 08:59 AM There comes a point in life when you realise that “Log kya kahenge?” was never just a sentence.It was conditioning.A silent inheritance passed from one generation to another — disguised as concern, morality, guidance, respectability, even love Slowly, without noticing, many of us begin editing ourselves around that fear! We rehearse our choices before making them.We dilute our opinions before expressing themWe hide parts of ourselves to remain digestible to people who were never going to fully understand us anyway… As a 36-year-old queer cis-male — partly out of the closet and partly nonchalant about it — I still get asked when I am getting married, […]

For a person whose predominant Love language is physical touch and quality time, nothing draws me closer to a person more than physical intimacy. And perhaps that is exactly why casual intimacy becomes so dangerous and exhausting for someone like me, and maybe you too… Because what happens when a person who associates sex with vulnerability, surrender, romance and emotional nakedness… starts engaging in meaningless casual sexual encounters with strangers? What happens to his heart? The heart still longs for intimacy that transcends the body. It still craves that feeling where two people do not merely touch skin, but dissolve into each other’s existence. Where desire is not just physical hunger, but emotional communion that permeates beyond the flesh. Where bodies entangle, and somehow spirits do too! But then the mind intervenes. It creates walls. Walls that demarcate how much of emotional nakedness is permitted within the perimeter of this sexual escapade… How much, if you ask…?Well just enough to satisfy the body. No deeper. You do not let anyone enter the inner chambers of your being. You learn dissociation…. train yourself to stop at the flesh and teach yourself how to remain emotionally untouched while physically exposed. But can […]