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August 7, 2026
Not All Families Look the Same
on Growing Older, Chosen Responsibilities, and Why Love isn’t a Competition. A funny thing happened yesterday when an old WhatsApp group from our MDS days suddenly came back to life after years of silence! It was just a group of three of us – Deep, Anika and me.  Deep had just become the father of twins while Anika was already carrying her second one, after giving birth to a lovely boy last year!  It started with congratulations and eventually became an exchange of jokes — “Deep bhai, 1+1 offer laya aapne to! Badhiyaa…“ And then it was pointed out that our group display picture was from 2017… Anika reminded us that 2017 was almost ten years ago! I said — “F***!! WE OLD!!! “ Deep in his good humour, joked that we had graduated from “dating” to “carbon dating.” We laughed and collectively realised — Damn… We’re getting older!  And then Anika typed one message that caught my attention — “Krish jab tak you’re a bachelor you still get to call yourself young. We on the other hand… Do bacho ke Maa-Baap dude!!!“ It was meant in good humour. And I smiled. But it also made me wonder… Is growing […]
August 4, 2026
An Open Letter to My Future Partner
So… you want to date me? Or perhaps you’ve simply stumbled onto this page after matching with me and are wondering whether I’m worth asking out for coffee. Or perhaps I’ve sent you this link because I’d quite like to take you out on a date! I believe, every meaningful relationship begins with a conversation. And unfortunately, dating apps have reduced those conversations to the same handful of questions, repeated over and over again… I could answer those in a chat window. But I don’t think anyone can be understood through a handful of chat bubbles. And I’ve also realised that rewriting the same answers for the five-hundredth time feels like cruel and unusual punishment. For all of us! Besides… if reading this feels like a chore, we may already have our answer. 🙂 We are all stories… and this is mine! Or at least, everything I think you should know before deciding whether it’s worth asking me out for coffee. So I wrote you a letter instead… 😊 _______________________________ FIRST THINGS FIRST… I’m not dating for entertainment. I’m dating because I genuinely hope to find my person. The end game. The one I grow next to and grow old […]
July 28, 2026
I Hate Being Called an “Animal Lover”
On 22nd November 2025, at the Shaam-e-Baazgasht Kolkata edition, a dear friend and neighbour from the audience affectionately introduced me by saying, “He is a very passionate animal lover.” That evening, it felt heartfelt. Warm, even. But over the last few weeks, I have slowly started hating this term — animal lover. Especially because I have increasingly seen it being used by people who have a problem with feeding strays, taking care of their health, or ensuring their wellbeing. Very often, the phrase is not used as a compliment anymore. It is used as a sneer. A label. A weaponised word meant to alienate anyone who chooses compassion over convenience and indifference. “Here comes the animal lover again…” And the implication is usually clear — emotional, irrational, troublesome, impractical. But tell me something honestly. If people who show compassion towards animals are called animal lovers, then what do we call people who actively oppose kindness towards them? Would animal haters be an appropriate antonym? I’m genuinely open to improving my English. Because the irony is difficult to miss. The same people who mock compassion are often the loudest voices speaking about “health risks,” “danger,” “disease,” and “public nuisance,” while sitting […]
July 28, 2026
✨ I Am a Man Who Cries ✨
Not long ago, I was sitting in a café with my girlfriend when our conversation drifted towards my past. We spoke about old relationships, childhood memories, and experiences that I had long since moved on from. They were no longer open wounds, yet some part of me still carried traces of pain associated with those moments. As I spoke, I found myself touched by a quiet sadness—not the kind that overwhelms or debilitates, but the soft melancholy that remains after grief has already been processed and understood. Sensing it, she held my hand and gently said, “You know you can cry if you feel like it.” What surprised me was not her statement but my own response. Almost instinctively, I replied, “Of course not.” “Why not?” she asked. “I’m a man.” The moment those words left my mouth, I could almost see years of calling myself a feminist and speaking against gender stereotypes crumble before my eyes. Here I was, someone who had spent years questioning social conditioning, unconsciously carrying one of its oldest messages: “Men don’t cry!” That thought stayed with me. And this morning, while sitting by myself, I found myself wondering why we were taught this in […]
July 20, 2026
Autumn Smells Like You
This morning, after lazying in bed for almost an hour or more before the world wakes up, when I finally dragged myself out, I shoved my face into the bellies of my kittens, one by one. And they smelled like… Autumn. I know it’s July and probably a bit too early to “smell” autumn. Nonetheless, it smelled like Autumn to me… fresh… cosy… perfect…!Like the smell that winter is around the corner, but not yet here. While on one hand there’s the anticipation of leaves drying and falling, on the other, there are fresh midnight jasmine blossoms quietly announcing themselves. And it triggered something in me.The old times…Texts from the bygone days…Waiting for a reply…or just… JUST an acknowledgement…Just a glimpse… Just a story… Just some kindness… Some reciprocation…Maybe just an emoji.Maybe just a “Seen.” We both know who we’re talking about. As I pulled open my curtains and looked down at the garden of my housing society—the very place where the Durga Pujo pandal rises every year in my housing society — I realised something. This is the same room, the same window, the same view… the same place where, not too long ago, I lay desperately hoping for […]
July 17, 2026
Chapter 5: Reverberation
The first rain of July arrived with dramatic intensity. Belagavi rains had a beauty to them, like nature itself was romancing the city. The rain wasn’t harsh, it wasn’t unkind, just enough to drench you occasionally… but always there as a drizzle to make you poetic. By evening, the entire campus smelled of wet mud, cigarette smoke, and damp leaves. Water dripped steadily from broken concrete edges while students sprinted between buildings holding bags over their heads in failed attempts at protection. Kuldeep hated the rain in Belagavi. Not because of the weather itself, but because of all the inconvenience it brought along with. Wet jeans, mushy laundry, mud-streaked corridors, fogged spectacles, delayed classes, and sometimes the gloominess of the weather would get to him, in a strange melancholic way. But today his annoyance was specifically from an unexpected phone call from the principal’s office. He stood outside Dr. Kale’s office adjusting the strap of his bag impatiently while rain hammered against the corridor windows, wondering why had the principal called him personally? Did somebody complain about the backstage fight from the fest? The office assistant, Mallesh, peeked out finally, “Principal Madam is calling.” Kuldeep entered cautiously. Dr. Tejashwini Kale […]