August 7, 2026
on Growing Older, Chosen Responsibilities, and Why Love isn’t a Competition. A funny thing happened yesterday when an old WhatsApp group from our MDS days suddenly came back to life after years of silence! It was just a group of three of us – Deep, Anika and me. Deep had just become the father of twins while Anika was already carrying her second one, after giving birth to a lovely boy last year! It started with congratulations and eventually became an exchange of jokes — “Deep bhai, 1+1 offer laya aapne to! Badhiyaa…“ And then it was pointed out that our group display picture was from 2017… Anika reminded us that 2017 was almost ten years ago! I said — “F***!! WE OLD!!! “ Deep in his good humour, joked that we had graduated from “dating” to “carbon dating.” We laughed and collectively realised — Damn… We’re getting older! And then Anika typed one message that caught my attention — “Krish jab tak you’re a bachelor you still get to call yourself young. We on the other hand… Do bacho ke Maa-Baap dude!!!“ It was meant in good humour. And I smiled. But it also made me wonder… Is growing […]





